Hurt Comfort Exchange Letter
Mar. 4th, 2025 10:25 amHello and thanks for writing a gift for me!
I think the tags and my list of likes/dislikes are
extensive already, so here are just a couple more ideas if you want to use them!
Here's my list again:
WHAT I LIKE:
*hurt/comfort(!!)
*unreliable narrators
*soft fics
*characters healing from trauma(!!)
*5+1 fics(!)
*'what if' scenarios
*canon divergence
*disability representation(!!)
*nicknames/pet names for characters
*coffeeshop AUs(!!)
*good depiction of therapy(!)
*hugs
*banter
*gardens/gardening
*older characters (50+) that find love(!)
*found family
*caretaking (♡)
*men with long hair(!!!)
*pets in stories
*misunderstandings that result in hurt/comfort(!!!)
*arranged marriage with hurt/comfort(!!!)
*mental health support(!!)
*found family, especially for people who had a shitty childhood/adolescence and/or shitty parental figures
*political systems in stories(!!)
*touchstarved characters receiving gentle touch (especially if they at first think they'll be hurt and then realise they're safe)
*steampunk(! ♡)
*quotes
*puns
*helping someone wash/bathe in a non-sexual way(!)
*general non-sexual intimacy(!)
*giving someone back their personhood after dehumanisation and convincing them they were always one and always will be
*one or more characters have undeniable power over another character; character they have power over worry they'll get hurt – confused and surprised when this power is not used (!! ♡)
*general healing for traumatised characters
*if it fits the vibe of the fic, I do like cows; so maybe you could squeeze a cow into the story? ^^
*3rd person POV
*religious imagery (all kinds of religions, not limited to christianity)
*mystery
*horror (body horror and psychological horror especially)
*queerplatonic relationships
*a character thinks themselves horrible and beyond redemption – others care for them and show them they're loved
*character who has only known pain gets kindness
*after-effects of trauma (a mix of heartbreaking and healing)
* 'you can rest now' & 'you are safe here' vibes(!)
*mermaids
*selkies
*oracles
*alternating POVs
*character studies
*epic fight scenes
*namedrop of existing bands/artists/music/books
*epistolary
*traditions (made up or real)
*badass female characters(!!)
*fix-its
*magical realism
*character believed to be dead is found alive and rescued
*DnD references
*characters moving in together
*friendship(!) (especially lovingly overprotective friends and/or friends who are there for you no questions asked)
*misunderstood monsters who really just want to be loved
*ghost stories
*queer rep(!!)
*characterd that look threatening but are actuqlly just sweet/want to be loved etc.
*characters who finally experience what being loved means(!!)
*explicit consent from both parties(!!)
*soft reassurance
*characters who have never experienced kindness finally getting some(!!)
*characters being 'given back' their humanity(!!)
*mercyfic(!!)
*all the softness
*case fics if the fandom I'm requesting is a crime show
*'team as a family' things (especially with crime shows)
*literal sleeping together
*medical accuracy for injuries/ilnesses/hospital stays etc.
* rescuing people out of horrible situations, then comfort
*slice of life
*found family(!)
*happy endings
*consent, asking for consent, giving consent, check-ups if still okay: basically, consent is hot (applies to characters of all gender identities, it shouldn't just be assumed that they consent)
*metaphors
*writing love letters
*breaking the 4th wall if it fits
DNWs/PLEASE DON'T:
*on-page non-con or dub-con, (vague flashbacks okay, as long as it's clear that the experience was horrible and something a character needs to heal from – I do not want it to be brushed aside)
*animal abuse
*racism
*sexism
*ableism
*homophobia
*transphobia
*pedophilia & underage
*sad endings
*alcohol (ANY mention of it)
*mentions of needles
*fake dating
*fatshaming
*Y/N fics
*came back wrong
*AI-written stuff
*songfics
*age gaps where one is just barely an adult and the other has been an adult for some time
*MCD
*omegaverse for anything other than own works
*scat/watersports
*any kink (vanilla sex okay, though I also love stories without sex – but it doesn't bother me)
*parental death
*death of pets
*mentions of COVID
*pregnancy and/or giving birth (existing kids are fine)
*'baby' as a term of endearment
OW
– Former Sex Slave / Rescuer (Hurt Former Sex Slave)
– Woman Obligated To Marry Her Sister's Widower/Her Sister's Abused Husband (Hurt Husband)
•) I have a thing for people who've known each other/were friends a long time ago, then lost contact (for whatever reason) and now meet again. Especially in horrible situations. Here, the power imbalance I have in my sign up could work wonderfully, especially if they were equals and now are not considered equals anymore.
•) Give me all the softness. Flashbacks to what the husband's or slave's life was like are great, but I'd like it if there was still a sense of comfort/healing in the fic.
•) Comforting characters struggling to adapt too, not really knowing how to help but doing their best.
•) I am a big fan of caretaking, physically, yes, but I ADORE emotional caretaking too. Especially after misunderstandings!
•) I LOVE characters who have been mistreated, hurt, abused and yes, they're scared and distrustful and think they'll get hurt – but they are still kind.
•) Unconventional settings! Historical settings! Surprise me! I'm not the biggest fan of paranormal stuff, but surprise me!
•) I love 'watching' (reading how) characters heal slowly. Catnip. Yes. Give me all of that.
•) Also, as mentioned in the sign-up: Clear power imbalance and the one with less/no power is stunned they won't be hurt.
•) Women comforting their men <3
•) Women kicking ass, being badass and taking no sh*t <3
•) Destroying gender stereotypes(!)
•) The slave is so used to mistreatment they can't phatom why they'd be saved OR
•) The husband is so used to years and years of his first wife's abuse he does not think his second wife will be any different
•) If you take the prompts that have/imply rape/non-con, I'd like there to be NO actual non-con, but thoughts/fear it's going to happen (and it does not!) are fine. The slave or husband being scared of the rescuer or wife is also fine.
•) Also, a bit unrelated, but I love descriptions. Can be everything! Surroundings, the weather, emotions, clothing, smells... The more 'immersive' the better!
Boiling Point
Jamie and Emily are everything. I love how she takes on a kind of mother-role for him, how she worries for him and takes care of him! It's a heavy show sometimes, but I love their bond. Some general ideas:
•) I would simply LOVE a fic about their talk that never actually got shown in the movie. How does Emily react to Jamie's scars after work? Does he tell her why he self-harms? What's the reason? Is he afraid she's going to get angry, is he ashamed, does he crave her comforting him? How does she comfort him? (I thought the hug scene in the movie was so lovely!)
Just let your imagination run wild!
•) Similiarly, with Jamie accidentally self-harming too deep/almost dying in the show: We see Emily's reaction, we see the aftermath. I'd love a fic that goes deeper into that – into Emily waiting for Jamie to wake up – what's going through her mind? – and then therapy and her supporting him.
•) I also would love an exploration of Jamie's family situation! Where are his parents? Does he have a bad relationship with them? Do they know about his mental health? Also, headcanons about them (his parents) are great! How does Emily react to whatever he tells her?
•) Also, a bit unrelated, but I love descriptions. Can be everything! Surroundings, the weather, emotions, clothing, smells... The more 'immersive' the better!
The Hobbit
•) I love Fíli and Kíli. I love how they protect each other, and especially all the instances where Fíli worries about Kíli.
•) Both of them are warriors, both of them trained to fight. Kílis injury leaves him weak, but he doesn't want to show it – does Fíli notice anyway? (In the movie, he does, as do the others, but I'd love a fic that goes deeper into that!)
•) Their brotherly bond? It's amazing. I loved all the interviews where both Dean O'Gorman and Aidan Turner talked about the bond Fíli and Kíli have – with Fíli being very aware of his responsibilities as the heir and Kíli being more adacious, but they're still both very competent abd look out for each other.
•) A fic about Fíli defending Kíli to Thorin when he's left behind would also be lovely! Or shortly before Tauriel heals him – we see Fíli brushing Kílis hair out of his face, constantly hovering near him and keeping an eye on his brother. I'd love a deeper exploration of what Fíli feels. And Kíli, even in his injured state – is he afraid he's let the others down?
•) Also, a bit unrelated, but I love descriptions. Can be everything! Surroundings, the weather, emotions, clothing, smells... The more 'immersive' the better!
Baldur's Gate
•) I would love a fic where the Origin characters find out that Astarion is a vampire. He gets defensive, maybe scared what they'll do, that he'll get cast aside – and it just does not happen.
•) Maybe there's a point in-fic where Astarion needs blood desperately and is stunned that his companions offer it willingly?
•) I love reluctant allies.
•) Poor Astarion has a truckload of trauma – without actual noncon in the fic, I'd love an exploration of this! Maybe he tries to seduce them and they're shocked/confused/'disgusted/sad for him and are like, let's heal some of that trauma through talking and giving you love.
•) Astarion is hiding a lot under his outgoing persona – 'I'm sorry for existing' could work, if you want that particular tag.
•) Astarion is wounded and needs blood ro heal; he's shocked when the others not only offer but also tell him he's important to them.
•) Also, a bit unrelated, but I love descriptions. Can be everything! Surroundings, the weather, emotions, clothing, smells... The more 'immersive' the better!
Thanks for creating for me, have fun!
I think the tags and my list of likes/dislikes are
extensive already, so here are just a couple more ideas if you want to use them!
Here's my list again:
WHAT I LIKE:
*hurt/comfort(!!)
*unreliable narrators
*soft fics
*characters healing from trauma(!!)
*5+1 fics(!)
*'what if' scenarios
*canon divergence
*disability representation(!!)
*nicknames/pet names for characters
*coffeeshop AUs(!!)
*good depiction of therapy(!)
*hugs
*banter
*gardens/gardening
*older characters (50+) that find love(!)
*found family
*caretaking (♡)
*men with long hair(!!!)
*pets in stories
*misunderstandings that result in hurt/comfort(!!!)
*arranged marriage with hurt/comfort(!!!)
*mental health support(!!)
*found family, especially for people who had a shitty childhood/adolescence and/or shitty parental figures
*political systems in stories(!!)
*touchstarved characters receiving gentle touch (especially if they at first think they'll be hurt and then realise they're safe)
*steampunk(! ♡)
*quotes
*puns
*helping someone wash/bathe in a non-sexual way(!)
*general non-sexual intimacy(!)
*giving someone back their personhood after dehumanisation and convincing them they were always one and always will be
*one or more characters have undeniable power over another character; character they have power over worry they'll get hurt – confused and surprised when this power is not used (!! ♡)
*general healing for traumatised characters
*if it fits the vibe of the fic, I do like cows; so maybe you could squeeze a cow into the story? ^^
*3rd person POV
*religious imagery (all kinds of religions, not limited to christianity)
*mystery
*horror (body horror and psychological horror especially)
*queerplatonic relationships
*a character thinks themselves horrible and beyond redemption – others care for them and show them they're loved
*character who has only known pain gets kindness
*after-effects of trauma (a mix of heartbreaking and healing)
* 'you can rest now' & 'you are safe here' vibes(!)
*mermaids
*selkies
*oracles
*alternating POVs
*character studies
*epic fight scenes
*namedrop of existing bands/artists/music/books
*epistolary
*traditions (made up or real)
*badass female characters(!!)
*fix-its
*magical realism
*character believed to be dead is found alive and rescued
*DnD references
*characters moving in together
*friendship(!) (especially lovingly overprotective friends and/or friends who are there for you no questions asked)
*misunderstood monsters who really just want to be loved
*ghost stories
*queer rep(!!)
*characterd that look threatening but are actuqlly just sweet/want to be loved etc.
*characters who finally experience what being loved means(!!)
*explicit consent from both parties(!!)
*soft reassurance
*characters who have never experienced kindness finally getting some(!!)
*characters being 'given back' their humanity(!!)
*mercyfic(!!)
*all the softness
*case fics if the fandom I'm requesting is a crime show
*'team as a family' things (especially with crime shows)
*literal sleeping together
*medical accuracy for injuries/ilnesses/hospital stays etc.
* rescuing people out of horrible situations, then comfort
*slice of life
*found family(!)
*happy endings
*consent, asking for consent, giving consent, check-ups if still okay: basically, consent is hot (applies to characters of all gender identities, it shouldn't just be assumed that they consent)
*metaphors
*writing love letters
*breaking the 4th wall if it fits
DNWs/PLEASE DON'T:
*on-page non-con or dub-con, (vague flashbacks okay, as long as it's clear that the experience was horrible and something a character needs to heal from – I do not want it to be brushed aside)
*animal abuse
*racism
*sexism
*ableism
*homophobia
*transphobia
*pedophilia & underage
*sad endings
*alcohol (ANY mention of it)
*mentions of needles
*fake dating
*fatshaming
*Y/N fics
*came back wrong
*AI-written stuff
*songfics
*age gaps where one is just barely an adult and the other has been an adult for some time
*MCD
*omegaverse for anything other than own works
*scat/watersports
*any kink (vanilla sex okay, though I also love stories without sex – but it doesn't bother me)
*parental death
*death of pets
*mentions of COVID
*pregnancy and/or giving birth (existing kids are fine)
*'baby' as a term of endearment
OW
– Former Sex Slave / Rescuer (Hurt Former Sex Slave)
– Woman Obligated To Marry Her Sister's Widower/Her Sister's Abused Husband (Hurt Husband)
•) I have a thing for people who've known each other/were friends a long time ago, then lost contact (for whatever reason) and now meet again. Especially in horrible situations. Here, the power imbalance I have in my sign up could work wonderfully, especially if they were equals and now are not considered equals anymore.
•) Give me all the softness. Flashbacks to what the husband's or slave's life was like are great, but I'd like it if there was still a sense of comfort/healing in the fic.
•) Comforting characters struggling to adapt too, not really knowing how to help but doing their best.
•) I am a big fan of caretaking, physically, yes, but I ADORE emotional caretaking too. Especially after misunderstandings!
•) I LOVE characters who have been mistreated, hurt, abused and yes, they're scared and distrustful and think they'll get hurt – but they are still kind.
•) Unconventional settings! Historical settings! Surprise me! I'm not the biggest fan of paranormal stuff, but surprise me!
•) I love 'watching' (reading how) characters heal slowly. Catnip. Yes. Give me all of that.
•) Also, as mentioned in the sign-up: Clear power imbalance and the one with less/no power is stunned they won't be hurt.
•) Women comforting their men <3
•) Women kicking ass, being badass and taking no sh*t <3
•) Destroying gender stereotypes(!)
•) The slave is so used to mistreatment they can't phatom why they'd be saved OR
•) The husband is so used to years and years of his first wife's abuse he does not think his second wife will be any different
•) If you take the prompts that have/imply rape/non-con, I'd like there to be NO actual non-con, but thoughts/fear it's going to happen (and it does not!) are fine. The slave or husband being scared of the rescuer or wife is also fine.
•) Also, a bit unrelated, but I love descriptions. Can be everything! Surroundings, the weather, emotions, clothing, smells... The more 'immersive' the better!
Boiling Point
Jamie and Emily are everything. I love how she takes on a kind of mother-role for him, how she worries for him and takes care of him! It's a heavy show sometimes, but I love their bond. Some general ideas:
•) I would simply LOVE a fic about their talk that never actually got shown in the movie. How does Emily react to Jamie's scars after work? Does he tell her why he self-harms? What's the reason? Is he afraid she's going to get angry, is he ashamed, does he crave her comforting him? How does she comfort him? (I thought the hug scene in the movie was so lovely!)
Just let your imagination run wild!
•) Similiarly, with Jamie accidentally self-harming too deep/almost dying in the show: We see Emily's reaction, we see the aftermath. I'd love a fic that goes deeper into that – into Emily waiting for Jamie to wake up – what's going through her mind? – and then therapy and her supporting him.
•) I also would love an exploration of Jamie's family situation! Where are his parents? Does he have a bad relationship with them? Do they know about his mental health? Also, headcanons about them (his parents) are great! How does Emily react to whatever he tells her?
•) Also, a bit unrelated, but I love descriptions. Can be everything! Surroundings, the weather, emotions, clothing, smells... The more 'immersive' the better!
The Hobbit
•) I love Fíli and Kíli. I love how they protect each other, and especially all the instances where Fíli worries about Kíli.
•) Both of them are warriors, both of them trained to fight. Kílis injury leaves him weak, but he doesn't want to show it – does Fíli notice anyway? (In the movie, he does, as do the others, but I'd love a fic that goes deeper into that!)
•) Their brotherly bond? It's amazing. I loved all the interviews where both Dean O'Gorman and Aidan Turner talked about the bond Fíli and Kíli have – with Fíli being very aware of his responsibilities as the heir and Kíli being more adacious, but they're still both very competent abd look out for each other.
•) A fic about Fíli defending Kíli to Thorin when he's left behind would also be lovely! Or shortly before Tauriel heals him – we see Fíli brushing Kílis hair out of his face, constantly hovering near him and keeping an eye on his brother. I'd love a deeper exploration of what Fíli feels. And Kíli, even in his injured state – is he afraid he's let the others down?
•) Also, a bit unrelated, but I love descriptions. Can be everything! Surroundings, the weather, emotions, clothing, smells... The more 'immersive' the better!
Baldur's Gate
•) I would love a fic where the Origin characters find out that Astarion is a vampire. He gets defensive, maybe scared what they'll do, that he'll get cast aside – and it just does not happen.
•) Maybe there's a point in-fic where Astarion needs blood desperately and is stunned that his companions offer it willingly?
•) I love reluctant allies.
•) Poor Astarion has a truckload of trauma – without actual noncon in the fic, I'd love an exploration of this! Maybe he tries to seduce them and they're shocked/confused/'disgusted/sad for him and are like, let's heal some of that trauma through talking and giving you love.
•) Astarion is hiding a lot under his outgoing persona – 'I'm sorry for existing' could work, if you want that particular tag.
•) Astarion is wounded and needs blood ro heal; he's shocked when the others not only offer but also tell him he's important to them.
•) Also, a bit unrelated, but I love descriptions. Can be everything! Surroundings, the weather, emotions, clothing, smells... The more 'immersive' the better!
Thanks for creating for me, have fun!